MEMOIR | GRIEF AND LOSS
My Ex’s Buddhist Funeral Made Me Reconsider Grieving
Parts of it nearly killed me but there were lessons
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10 min readSep 8, 2023
Ken died in Phnom Penh. Before the fire of the cremation oven was lit, I talked to a large crowd— about his travels, his growing up in Michigan, our lives in Oregon and Cambodia, and his love of Star Trek. A hundred people…